I used to be crusty!

Girl with a pen.

Hello beautiful people of this world.

I’m sure you are staying beautiful in this summer heat because I am not.

It is wayyy too hot, I could fry an egg on my forehead.

It is so hot that McDonalds is frying burgers on parked cars. It is so hot that the catfish are already fried when you catch them. It is so hot that all the beach sand has turned into glass.

IT'S JUST WAYY TOOOOO HOTTT.

Anyways this post is about finding the right one. I’ve been doing my research and I believe a lot of us youths are in the phase of constantly searching for the right significant other to appear and have the perfect relationship.

But is there such a thing as a perfect guy or girl? Or the perfect relationship? Ideally, we all want somebody who actually likes us back, is stunning, funny, caring, trustworthy, honest, fun, lit, tall, built and so many other unrealistic qualities. And so, we are constantly searching, some of us, very much actively. We go to parties, events, gathering and are constantly staring like hawks, seeking for a dream guy to be randomly there and your eyes meet, and you ride off into the sunset. Ohhhh, what a dream! But GWAP has a different perspective today..

I want you to look at the guy on the side, the one that might not really be your type but has potential. Keyword of today “Potential.”

Do you loves remember how you used to look about 3-4 years before now? Some of us look really hit. I’m talking about troll hit. I know I used to. And don’t lie either and say you looked like Beyoncé. Because honestly, nobody does!! #beyhive. But anyways, back then a cute person might have looked at us and thought “ugh…what is that?” don’t cry, it’s okay. We’ve all been there. But you are different now. You’re somewhat glowed up and have boobs now. Your voice is deeper, your braces are off, your abs are coming in, you don’t drool when you talk, you don’t sound like a cow when you laugh, you’ve taken sweats out your closet and you know, you’re living your best life. This definitely isn’t about me by the way. Lol. But seriously you look amazing now. And it’s all because you had potential. A lot of people who we think aren’t really our type or we would never date, are just in their caterpillar phase. You never know how beautiful the butterfly would look. You have to give it a chance. And for some people, you might be the reason they get to be that butterfly.

So, what am I saying? GWAP is saying sometimes you might have to look at the what could be instead of the now. Have faith. Faith is believing in something not seen. Sometimes that crusty dude might just grow to be a Channing Tatum with a proper haircut, some refined wardrobe and several gym workouts. Think like a business man does; get a land and invest and maybe help turn it into a hotel someday. Now I’m not saying, spend all your time and effort on the land even though clearly, the land just wants to be a land. If the person isn’t improving, and it’s beneath your standards, then by all means, sell the land to someone else.

Y'all are like “common GWAP with all this stupid comparisons!!!”

But I think you all understand what I’m trying to say. Even though people have certain beliefs and values, you can help someone refine those beliefs. You can help modify their views and make the relationship work even though it didn’t start out like that. Give people chances to grow. Help them grow. You weren’t always you, people helped you get to where you are, positively or negatively. You need to see the potential in people. Don’t always overlook the people in your side mirror. They might just be a beautiful flower that needs your garden. Water them!

Omg I am on a roll with these analogies! Yeaah babay!

ANYWAYS THATS IT FOR TODAY, I JUST WANTED TO HIGHLIGHT PEOPLE WHO JUST NEED FAITH AND A CHANCE TO BE BETTER. I DON'T KNOW WHY I AM TYPING IN CAPLOCKS BUT IT CAUGHT YOUR ATTENTION SO TEEHEE.

Until next time,